By Vitus Ejiogu
One thing that definitely pollutes the act of marriage is adultery. T is lying with another man's wife (Leviticus 20:10). If either the man or the woman is married and has sexual intercourse with anyone other than his or her spouse, he has committed adultery and has opened up for God's judgment.
Men normally fall victims of this the very moment their attention shifts from their wives to the other woman next door. It should be noted that adultery is a demonic doorway against most families today. When you are married, there is a hedge of protection round about you, which is broken when you commit adultery, and anything negative can happen as a result (Ecclesiastes 10:8). To stay close and true to your wife all through your life, here are ten romantic gestures that can make her feel your love without doubt.
1. Understanding - Understanding your wife is more romantic than admiration. Even though women expect their husbands to admire them all the time, yet a misunderstood wife has no time for frivolities. Taking time to admire one's wife helps to save men from the danger of temptation, but when your wife discovers that you are the understanding type, she believes truly that she has a husband in you.
2. Enticement - Men always like playing the role of a tempter to their wives. Before now, it was the woman that actually flirted, but in marriage men tend to outsmart them in the game of persuasion. Women are always won over by men since they are very easy to be convinced. Men always persuade their wives into agreeing to terms with them and most women however are always at home with this gesture.
3. Cleanliness - Women love to be clean and for you to constantly be in your wife's good book, be clean. Women understand that being clean is synonymous with good health, and so believes their husbands' claims of love or respect them more when they keep themselves clean and tidy.
4. Gifts - Occasional gifts to your wife is a good step to assuring her of your love and faithfulness, even though some husbands use gifts often as a cover-up to their waywardness.
5. Kitchen attendance - Some men's kitchen attendance is almost zero because they do not bother at all about that. There are also those who are good cooks, but those who detest the kitchen environment are truly taking a chance. Men who cook well are the delights of their wives. If time permits, try to surprise your wife by showing her how well you can cook, even if it's once in a while.
6. Laundry - Some men are good at laundry works at home. Sharing responsibilities at home helps you as a husband to always look inward. Inward lookers discover treasures afresh in the home. When you share your time together with your wife, helping her to tidy up your home, you will definitely be a winner at the home-front.
7. The Fear of God - Women love men who openly show their respect for God. They feel very comfortable with men who are God-fearing. God-fearing husbands are highly respected at home and outside the home. When you believe and serve God as you ought to, your wife will love and trust you.
8. Integrity - as a married man, there are certain stimuli that you can do without. Today, the world relies on pornography to stimulate their sexual appetite, but the man who knows himself avoids this and upholds high standard of morality (2 Corinthians 10:5). Your wife loves and trusts you the more when she is the only one that stimulates you. If your marriage is romantic, you will have no business with pornography.
9. Self-Control - There are men who always lose balance each time they come close with someone of the opposite sex, especially when she is not well garbed. Women love and trust men who exercise self-control in any situation they find themselves.
10. Telling The Truth - Women are staunch believers of almost everything that comes out of a man's mouth. As a man you stand a chance of losing your credibility the moment your lies are discovered by your wife. Truth is a romantic gesture which when you are known with it, keeps your wife very close to you, making it impossible for you to turn your eyes elsewhere.
However, there are so many other gestures that can turn a woman on romantically, but the above ten can be a starting point.
Men normally fall victims of this the very moment their attention shifts from their wives to the other woman next door. It should be noted that adultery is a demonic doorway against most families today. When you are married, there is a hedge of protection round about you, which is broken when you commit adultery, and anything negative can happen as a result (Ecclesiastes 10:8). To stay close and true to your wife all through your life, here are ten romantic gestures that can make her feel your love without doubt.
1. Understanding - Understanding your wife is more romantic than admiration. Even though women expect their husbands to admire them all the time, yet a misunderstood wife has no time for frivolities. Taking time to admire one's wife helps to save men from the danger of temptation, but when your wife discovers that you are the understanding type, she believes truly that she has a husband in you.
2. Enticement - Men always like playing the role of a tempter to their wives. Before now, it was the woman that actually flirted, but in marriage men tend to outsmart them in the game of persuasion. Women are always won over by men since they are very easy to be convinced. Men always persuade their wives into agreeing to terms with them and most women however are always at home with this gesture.
3. Cleanliness - Women love to be clean and for you to constantly be in your wife's good book, be clean. Women understand that being clean is synonymous with good health, and so believes their husbands' claims of love or respect them more when they keep themselves clean and tidy.
4. Gifts - Occasional gifts to your wife is a good step to assuring her of your love and faithfulness, even though some husbands use gifts often as a cover-up to their waywardness.
5. Kitchen attendance - Some men's kitchen attendance is almost zero because they do not bother at all about that. There are also those who are good cooks, but those who detest the kitchen environment are truly taking a chance. Men who cook well are the delights of their wives. If time permits, try to surprise your wife by showing her how well you can cook, even if it's once in a while.
6. Laundry - Some men are good at laundry works at home. Sharing responsibilities at home helps you as a husband to always look inward. Inward lookers discover treasures afresh in the home. When you share your time together with your wife, helping her to tidy up your home, you will definitely be a winner at the home-front.
7. The Fear of God - Women love men who openly show their respect for God. They feel very comfortable with men who are God-fearing. God-fearing husbands are highly respected at home and outside the home. When you believe and serve God as you ought to, your wife will love and trust you.
8. Integrity - as a married man, there are certain stimuli that you can do without. Today, the world relies on pornography to stimulate their sexual appetite, but the man who knows himself avoids this and upholds high standard of morality (2 Corinthians 10:5). Your wife loves and trusts you the more when she is the only one that stimulates you. If your marriage is romantic, you will have no business with pornography.
9. Self-Control - There are men who always lose balance each time they come close with someone of the opposite sex, especially when she is not well garbed. Women love and trust men who exercise self-control in any situation they find themselves.
10. Telling The Truth - Women are staunch believers of almost everything that comes out of a man's mouth. As a man you stand a chance of losing your credibility the moment your lies are discovered by your wife. Truth is a romantic gesture which when you are known with it, keeps your wife very close to you, making it impossible for you to turn your eyes elsewhere.
However, there are so many other gestures that can turn a woman on romantically, but the above ten can be a starting point.
Vitus Ejiogu is a writer and publisher with the Fire-Brand Int'l Ministries, a media ministry that is based in Nigeria.
He is the editor of FOUNDATION SATELLITE magazine also published by the ministry. He pastors a Church in Bauchi and is married with two children.
You can reach him at: firebrandhq@yahoo.com or, 234 802 8181 829. Website: http://businessunit.blogspot.com
Article Source: http://EzineArticles.com/?expert=Vitus_Ejiogu He is the editor of FOUNDATION SATELLITE magazine also published by the ministry. He pastors a Church in Bauchi and is married with two children.
You can reach him at: firebrandhq@yahoo.com or, 234 802 8181 829. Website: http://businessunit.blogspot.com
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